Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast

Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast with Dr. Kanwal Bawa

Improving sexual health for increased happiness and wellness.

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Episode 42

Vaginismus, Vibrators & Vaginal Massage

This is a case of extreme vaginal tightness. 1 out of every 10 women suffers from Vaginismus but when is the last time you heard about it? What causes Vaginismus? How can you treat it? What roles do dilators and vibrators play in the treatment of Vaginismus? Does Vaginismus make sex hurt? And what is this talk about vaginal massage?! I am joined by Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus who is an internationally recognized sex therapist and author of the book “Sex Points.” She often talks about Vaginismus, and what women can do to heal not just their bodies but their relationships. Tune in for this incredible discussion. 

Episodes 39-41

COVID, Testosterone & Male Sexual Dysfunction

Some of these changes are mind-boggling. Can COVID make your penis smaller?! Can COVID cause Erectile Dysfunction? And what is the link between COVID and Testosterone? Who is more likely to die of COVID? Who should be on Testosterone therapy? And who should not be on Testosterone replacement? Tune into this episode to find answers to all this and more.

Anal-yze This: Cucumbers, Condoms, and Safe Anal Sex

 How common is anal sex? How should you prep for anal sex? What is the best lube for anal sex? How can you have safe anal sex? What about anal sex toys and cucumbers?!! Can you have anal sex if you have hemorrhoids? What is the best position for anal sex? Does anal sex make a man gay? Are you a giver or a taker? What is pegging? What is rimming? How can you maintain hygiene while having anal sex? Should you douche before anal sex? And what about condoms? In this episode I am joined by my friend Dr. Caleb Jacobson who is an internationally recognized clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and biblical scholar. He chairs the AASECT Special Interest Group on Sexuality and Religion, and is the host of the very popular Sex Therapy Podcast.

Sex On A First Date: Genius or Disaster?

The research will shock you. Is the third date rule the best waiting period or should you wait at least a month? Do men think poorly of women who have sex on a first date? What about performance anxiety? I am joined by Brian Howie, podcaster (The Great Love Debate) and owner of the PodPopuli chain of podcast recording studios. We discuss all these issues and more. Tune in now! 

Episodes 36-38

Orgasm After Childbirth: Baby’s Coming & So Is Mom

A woman can and should be having orgasms at that very time. Why can’t a woman be sexual and maternal simultaneously? This episode addresses this controversial concept. Furthermore, did you stop to think about how traumatic childbirth and the postpartum period are for a woman? It is both physically and emotionally draining. It is tough on the partner and the family as well. A doula can be a great support when a woman needs it the most. I am joined by Doula Ruth Kraft in this episode, and we discuss sexuality, orgasms, childbirth, and much more. Tune in now.

Why Men Who Do Kegels Have Better Sex

What?! Yes, Kegels for men really are a thing. What really is a Kegel? Why should men do Kegels? Do they really help a man get better erections? What else can they do?
On this episode I am joined by actor, podcaster and voice artist Phil Hersh who learns how to do Kegels on the air. Tune in to hear how men and women alike can squeeze their way to both better sex and a stronger pelvic floor. 

Bringing Horny Back: How to Reclaim Your Libido

It is not just a female problem. There are plenty of men losing their desire for sex. Why does this happen? Is it a physical or mental issue? I am joined on this episode by Janine Stella, host of the Skulls and Stilettos podcast. We both live in South Florida, and got talking about Janine’s low libido. We brought the conversation on the air because that is what podcasters do. Tune in for the reasons why people lose libido, and what they can do to treat it. 

Episodes 33-35

Surprising Facts About Orgasm-2

 Can a woman have an orgasm during childbirth,? What about during sleep? How are nipples and orgasms connected? Let’s talk about all this and more in this episode. The facts will surprise you.

Sugar Daddy Secrets

Are Sugar Babies just high-end escorts? Is a Sugar Daddy usually cheating on his wife? Where do these couples find each other? Are they couples at all?
I am joined by Marcus, a Sugar Daddy, in this episode. Marcus is the host of Secrets of a Sugar Daddy,
the number one sugar dating podcast in the world. Marcus answers some of my questions in this very informative episode. Tune in now for all the details. 

Bridging The Orgasm Gap

In a survey of over 2000 straight women, 57% said that they orgasm most or every time they have sex with a partner while 95% said that their partner orgasms most or every time. In a different survey, 64% of women and 91% of men said that they had had an orgasm during their most recent sexual encounter. It is apparent that there is a large gap between the number of women having orgasms and the number of men having orgasms. I am honored to be joined on this episode of the Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast by Dr. Laurie Mintz, who is the author of the book “Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters- And How To Get It.” 

Episodes 30-32

Burlesque Behind The Feathers: Sexuality & Body Positivity

The confidence to be ourselves, to voice our fantasies and needs, to actively portray our true self. Eve Champagne, the Queen of Burlesque, is bringing her unique brand of confidence, sexuality and fantasy to Hamburg, Germany and far beyond. She is also a tour guide for the Reeperbahn sex district of Hamburg. I flew there to interview her in person. Tune in to hear how we can all learn something from Eve and the world of Burlesque. 

Loose Women:  How To Tighten Your Vagina

From childbirth to normal aging, it seems that everything causes it! I am joined by the very funny and very bougie Crazy, Rich Neighbors in this episode. We talk about why vaginal laxity happens, what you can do to prevent it, and what you can do to fix it with my unique combination of vaginal rejuvenation treatments. We also talk about penis size, penis enlargement and more. After all, are you too big or is your partner too small? Is it both?! 

Sex & The Older Woman:  Thank you Emma Thompson

In this episode we discuss sex and sexuality in the older woman. We also discuss the Emma Thompson movie Good Luck To You, Leo Grande. Emma Thompson plays a widow in her early 60s who has never had an orgasm, and hires a male escort to help get her there. The movie makes a very poignant comment about sex and the older woman, her insecurities, and more. I am joined by Eileen Lemelman, clinical social worker and psychotherapist with over 30 years of experience. Eileen specializes in treating trauma, and we talk about the issue from both a psychosocial and biological point of view.

Episodes 27-29

Porn Addiction:  Fact or Fiction?

40 million American people regularly visit porn sites. 35% of all internet downloads are related to pornography. One-third of porn viewers are women. Every second 28,258 users are watching pornography on the internet. In this episode I am joined by my friend Dr. Caleb Jacobson who is an internationally recognized clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and biblical scholar. He chairs the AASECT Special Interest Group on Sexuality and Religion, and is the host of the very popular Sex Therapy Podcast.

Do We Need Fixing?

Can we really fix our partner? What does that even mean? In this episode I talk to Heather Leigh, host of The Man Fixer podcast, and my friend Ken. Heather discusses issues from a man’s point of view, and Ken is a man I have unsuccessfully tried to fix for years, albeit as a friend. Tune in for a great conversation. 

Sex & The Single Mom

In this episode I am joined by my friend Eva who, like me, is a single mother. We are both successful women navigating the world of dating in our 40s. We are not alone. According to the U.S. Census Bureau of the 11 million single parent families with children, nearly 80 percent are headed by single mothers. Join me as we discuss the joys and sorrows of single moms, and our experiences trying to date. 

Episodes 24-26

All The Colors Of The Rainbow

June is LGBTQ+ Pride Month and I took this opportunity to invite my friend Robert Boo to the podcast. Robert is the CEO of Ft. Lauderdale’s iconic Pride Center. What is the difference between all the different terms used to describe the LGBTQ+ community? What are the various issues faced by them today? Are attitudes changing? What are the resources for HIV+ people? We are very different yet we are all the same. At the end of the day, love is love, and we are all colors of the same rainbow.

Middle-Aged & Single

This is not how it was supposed to be. What does it mean when a man has never been married and had no children at that age? Is this a major red flag? How have dating and marriage changed over the past few decades? In this episode I talk to Jonathan Sheer, host of the podcast I Know Jonathan Sheer. Tune in for more.

When Fast & Furious Is A Bad Thing

What we don’t realize is that it is also affecting at least that many partners. It is a complex issue that must be discussed. How does the male orgasm work? How quick is too quick? What causes Premature Ejaculation? Can you do anything to fix it? Join me for answers.

Episodes 21-23

Let’s Talk About Orgasms

This episode is about the human orgasmic potential, and I am joined by Susan Bratton who refers to herself as the “Orgasmanaut…” We are combining the medical and sensual. Tune in for the science behind orgasms, as well as tips and tricks. 

Porn: The Good, the Bad & the Ugly

The real numbers are definitely higher. In this episode I discuss the good, the bad and the ugly about porn with Sebas Peñaranda, the host of the podcast The Sebas Perspective. Is it healthy to watch porn? How much is too much? Listen to us discuss porn, penis size, penile enlargement, Erectile Dysfunction (ED), sex toys, relationships and of course, sex! 

Surprising Facts About Orgasm

What does it take to have a great orgasm? Does it have to be sexual touch or can a person be stimulated to the point of orgasm by something nonsexual? Where is the mythical G Spot? Let’s talk about all this and more in this episode. The facts will surprise you.

Episodes 18-20

The Future of Sex

Sebas is 21 and I am 43. We see the world very differently…or do we? He is Colombian by heritage and I am Indian. I have often felt that Latin and Indian families have a lot in common. Listen to us discuss one night stands, online dating, the effect of porn on relationships, starter marriages, and more.

The Erection That Won’t Go Away

This condition is called Priapism. How does an erection actually work? How is it that some erections don’t go away? What medications can cause this?
What are the long term effects of Priapism? Is there an alternative to medications for Erectile Dysfunction? What is the link between Sickle Cell Anemia and Priapism? What do penis implants have to do with Priapism? Tune in to find out the answers to all this and more.

Sex and Shame: A Vicious Cycle

Not only do people feel ashamed of their sexuality, they often judge each other over sexuality as well. I practice skin rejuvenation, hair restoration and sexual wellness at my medical practice Bawa Medical. I am often told that I am ruining my brand by practicing sexual medicine and being so open about it. In this episode of Dr. Sex Fairy I am joined by Dr. Christopher Ryan Jones, clinical psychologist, sex therapist and researcher. He has his own podcast called Sex Therapy with Dr. Jones. Why do we feel shame when it comes to sex? How does porn affect our relationships? How does shame lead to premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, and vice versa? Are porn stars ashamed of their career? How does poor body image affect sex? We are ashamed of masturbation but can it actually build confidence? How can we overcome shame? Listen to this episode for all this and more.

Episodes 15-17

Career & Infidelity: A Pilot Speaks

Pilots are infamous for infidelity. Books like The Pilot’s Wife promote that reputation. In this episode I speak to a commercial airline captain and ask him if pilots are really as unfaithful as one has heard.
Is Aviation Induced Divorce Syndrome (also known as AIDS) fact or fiction? Which careers have the highest rates of divorce? What happens on those long haul flights? Which careers have the highest rates of divorce? Tune in to this episode to find out.

Sex and Rejuvenation: Making Lives Better

Why do I dislike Viagra and Cialis? Why are my form of penis enlargement and erectile dysfunction treatments better than silicone or Penuma penis implants?
Can someone tell if you have a penis implant? What do the P-Shot, the O-Shot and hair restoration have in common? What do heart attacks and erectile dysfunction have in common? Listen to this episode for all this and more.

Polyamory: Is Three a Crowd?

The Webster Dictionary defines polyamory as the state or practice of having more than one open romantic relationship at a time. “Poly” comes from the Greek word meaning many, and “-amory” from the Latin for “amor” which means love.
How is a polyamorous relationship different from polygamy or swinging? Why does the LGBTQ community have more polyamorous relationships? Studies have shown that 1 in 6 U.S. adults want to be polyamorous, and 1 in 9 have been polyamorous at some point in their lives!
In this episode I talk to my friend Roger who lives in South Florida and is in a committed polyamorous relationship with two other men. They share a home and many happy times. I invited Roger to the studio to help enlighten us on many of the questions we all have about this lifestyle choice. Tune in to hear our fun and informative talk.

Episodes 12-14

Sex and Religion

In this episode of Dr. Sex Fairy I am joined by Dr. Christopher Ryan Jones, clinical psychologist, sex therapist and researcher. He has his own podcast called Sex Therapy with Dr. Jones. He is also the chair of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists’ special interest group on sexuality and religion.
Our discussion includes how religion influences sexuality, how it affects sex negativity and sex positivity, whether you can be both highly sexual and highly spiritual, and how religion views the LGBTQ community. Can religion cause you to have premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction? How does religion view polyamory, polyandry and polygamy? Tune in to find out.

Female Sexual Dysfunction: What’s a Girl to Do?

It is another issue altogether when nothing helps. Women have difficulty having orgasms due to a variety of reasons ranging from hormones to normal aging to past trauma, and more. What if a woman has low libido? What if she cannot get turned on even if she wants to have sex? Why does sex hurt? What do Psoriasis and Eczema have to do with sex? Listen to this episode to learn about Female Sexual Arousal Disorder, Female Orgasmic Disorder, Dyspareunia and Genital Size Mismatch. I will also discuss some of the most effective types of vaginal rejuvenation options available to women today from the famous O-Shot to vaginal lasers to acoustic wave therapy and more.

More Money, More Problems

…is money really the root of all evil or are we complicating our lives unnecessarily? Does having more money help or hurt relationships? Listen to me talk to Ft. Lauderdale-based attorney Michael Wild, managing partner of Wild Felice & Partners, PA who practices in the areas of estate planning, asset protection, probate administration and wealth transfer. Michael, like me, is a 40-something divorced and successful parent living the single life in beautiful and ritzy South Florida. Is it easier or harder for us? In what ways does being a single parent complicate things? Would we get married again? Would we rather find a great employee or a great significant other?! Tune in.

Episodes 9-11

Use It or Lose It

We are shrinking! The ladies from the Crazy, Rich Neighbors podcast and I discuss how a clitoris can shrink and what you can do about it. Can you make a clitoris bigger?
Where is the G spot? Is it real? What happens to the vagina if you don’t have sex? How old is too old when it comes to vaginal rejuvenation? Does estrogen cream help? What is an O-Shot? Can a penis shrink? Can you make a penis bigger?
Listen to this great episode for answers to these questions and more.

The Happy Vagina: How To Get Your Groove Back

While it is easy to want to blame someone, the partner isn’t always at fault. Women find it harder to achieve orgasm even with clitoral stimulation.
They find that they suffer from vaginal laxity (looseness) due to childbirth and general wear and tear. Lubrication is another issue with vaginal dryness keeping them from enjoying sex. What’s a girl to do?!
Vaginal rejuvenation has reached new levels at my practice Bawa Medical. Listen to this episode to learn how your partner and/ or you can get your groove back and have the sex you dream about.

Mr. Big: Let’s Talk Penis Enlargement

Men of all sizes usually want to be bigger. I see many of them at my practice Bawa Medical. Some questions arise in every penis enlargement consultation, and I think it is a good idea to address them here. After all, if my patients want to know, you want to know.
What is penis enlargement? How can I make my penis bigger? How does non-surgical penis enlargement procedure work at Bawa Medical? Are a P-Shot and penis enlargement the same thing? What is PRP? What is a filler? How long will my penis enlargement results last? How long will the penis enlargement procedure take? Does it hurt? What does penis enlargement cost? Find out the answers to all this and more in this episode of the Dr. Sex Fairy.

Episodes 6-8

Swinging Into More Sex

Some are married, some are dating…and some are committed to each other but like having sex with other people.
How do my swinger patients have more sex? Does penis size matter? What is the swinger lifestyle? Do their partners get jealous? Is swinging in a relationship healthy? How do swingers find each other? What is a swinger party? Do swingers have threesomes? Do swingers have group sex and orgies? I had a lot of questions and sat down with my patient Jim to talk about his alternative lifestyle choice.

Sex Sent Them To The ER

I am a Cleveland Clinic trained and board-certified emergency medicine physician in addition to being Dr. Sex Fairy. I no longer work in the ER but the sexual wellness part of my Boca Raton, Florida rejuvenation practice Bawa Medical is directly related to my experiences while I worked there.
In fact, I saw so many sexual and sex-related emergencies that I started to wonder what was missing in our medical system, and why many of these things were happening to begin with.
What are the side effects of Viagra and Cialis? How long should an erection last? Who buys the most sex toys? What is the number one sex toy sold? Are gas station ED (Erectile Dysfunction) drugs and other stimulants safe? Can you make a penis bigger without surgery? What is a yoni egg?! Tune in for answers to all this, and more.

Plug The Leak: How to Treat Urinary Incontinence

The two most common types of urinary incontinence are stress incontinence and urge incontinence. Urine leakage is more common in women over the age of 50 and 75% of women above age 65 suffer from incontinence of some sort. Less than half of the women who experience incontinence episodes discuss the issue with their doctor. Some women may find it too embarrassing to discuss symptoms, while others may think it is normal for them to experience incontinence after childbirth or with aging.
Dr. Kanwal Bawa AKA Dr. Sex Fairy is often asked these questions by her patients: “What is urinary incontinence?” “Do I need surgery for urinary incontinence?” “I leak when I cough and sneeze. What can I do about that?” “Will I have to wear pantyliners forever?” “I don’t let my husband give me oral sex because I smell of urine. What can I do?” “Why do I leak urine when I do jumping jacks?” “Do all women leak after vaginal childbirth?” “What is Thermiva?” “What is a CO2 laser?”
Listen to this episode titled “Plug The Leak” in which Dr. Sex Fairy speaks to her patient Tamara whose life was transformed by her vaginal rejuvenation treatments.

Episodes 3-5

How to Get A Porn Star Penis

Just about every man wants a bigger penis. A study found that women prefer penises that are about 6.3 inches long but what is the average penis size?
Dr. Bawa’s patients often ask her the same questions: “Can I make my penis bigger?” “Do I need a penis implant?” “Is penis enlargement painful?” “Does penis enlargement last?” “Does penis enlargement hurt?” “How much bigger can my penis get?”
Men fly to her office for penis enlargement from all over the US and the world. Dr. Bawa also treat ED (Erectile Dysfunction) so that her patients not only have a big penis that looks like one you would expect on a porn star, they have one that works like a porn star penis too! But how does she do this?
Listen to this episode titled “How To Get A Porn Star Penis” in which Dr. Sex Fairy discusses all this and more with her patient Donald who now has a huge penis and cannot wipe the smile off his face.

The State of the Date

In this episode Dr. Sex Fairy is joined by the podfather himself, Brian Howie. Brian’s podcast “The Great Love Debate” is the number one dating and relationship podcast in the world.
Is it OK to have sex on a first date? Are online dating apps like Bumble, Tinder and Match leading to a more casual attitude towards sex and dating? How much difference does it really make if you voted for Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton? Has the Me Too Movement made dating harder? Have gender roles become too blurred for our own good? Would you go to a sex shop on a first date and buy sex toys and lubricant? Join Dr. Sex Fairy and Brian Howie for a spirited discussion about the state of dating in our world.

The Second Coming: Bringing Back Sex & Passion

Couples have lower libido and less passion. Moreover, Erectile Dysfunction is a major issue for men young and old. Are Viagra and Cialis the best treatment for harder erections that last longer? What is Shockwave or Acoustic Wave Therapy? What is a P-Shot?
Vaginas take a hit with age as well. Vaginal dryness makes sex painful and vaginal laxity (a loose vaginal canal) leads to less pleasure for both partners. What are the options for true vaginal rejuvenation? What is an O-Shot? How can both partners have intense orgasms?
Hear Jim and Cindy’s story to learn how a loving couple brought passion and sex to the forefront of their relationship.

Episodes 0-2

The Vagina Wars

CO2 or radiofrequency? Vaginal laser rejuvenation is the best way to regain the vagina of your youth but which kind should a girl do? Women need to fix vaginal laxity and dryness, incontinence and more. And we all want better sex! Tune in to hear the ladies from the “Crazy, Rich Neighbors” podcast join me to talk about how I take women back decades in time!

Let’s Talk About Sex

We all do it, but only some of us make it delicious…and I am here to spice up your life. Listen to this episode to learn how I went from running down the halls of the Emergency Room at the Cleveland Clinic to bringing people from all over the world a level of sexual wellness and performance that they did not think possible. From vaginal rejuvenation to erectile dysfunction treatments to penis enlargement, I do it all, and then some. Join me as we kick off this journey of pleasure, growth, wellness and performance.

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